Have you been waiting for a call to go on that second date and it seems like the telephone never rings? Make no mistake. The search for internet dating is something comfortable and quite usual today, but is it a sure thing? True comfort is a plus, but there are risks that must be considered. Protected by the computer screen, maybe not everyone is who they say they are. Maybe their photo is fake. Maybe we can find someone dangerous. But it will always be that way. And the day we meet that dream person, your prince, you will realize how much you have in common during the first date. But days after, he doesn’t call. Weeks go by and you never hear from your date again. It makes you wonder, if everything seemed so wonderful for me, why didn’t I get a phone call asking to go on a second date?
1. A LOVELY CONVERSATION
Are you sure it was a perfect date for the both of you? There are many common mistakes that are easy to make on the first date. Talking too much, nonstop sometimes. Whether it’s your enthusiasm for the first date or your nervousness, it can really monopolize the conversation. We must consider this point and try to listen and participate in the conversation, not dominate it. Choose topics that may interest both of you and listen to their opinions, too.
2. THE PAST IS PAST
On the first date, we usually tell stories about our past. Sometimes that’s not the best idea. Not everyone likes to know all the details. It’s much better to create new memories with the person you are with. The point is for you both to get to know each other, not overwhelm your partner with stories from the past.
3. DON’T SHOW MUCH INTEREST
Another common mistake is showing excessive interest on the first date. Too much excitement is not good. You have to show interest but not too much, leave your suitor wanting more. We must proceed with caution, careful not to praise him too much either; at the end of the day, you never know. You have to leave some for later.
4. BE SEXY, INSINUATE WITHOUT SHOWING ALL
Your external image is very important. It’s crucial to choose a feminine, sexy and flirtatious look, but not something vulgar and shameless. Somethings must be left to the imagination. If we show too much, we can give off the message that we are easy. A real gentlemen is not looking for something like that. As a suggestion, displaying some of your charms without being vulgar or obscene will give you a sexy and feminine image that men love. Also, pay attention to your hairstyle, your makeup and your hands (particulary your fingernails).
5. BORING? NO THANKS.
No man likes a boring woman. Someone who doesn’t like doing anything with a dull and boring life is not attractive to a man on the first date. It is not necessary that all your actions are full of adrenaline, or you’re a crazy adventurer. Men do like active women who propose plans. Show yourself active and conquer.
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